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Harun Kewa's avatar

Internal validation is more rewarding and long lasting than external validation.

Great post, Odinakachi!

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Odinakachi Nwonu's avatar

Thank you so much for sharing your thoughts on the subject, Harun.

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Tinashe D. Ndhlovu's avatar

Getting praise from others feels nice, but it's not always there when you need it. People change their minds a lot and are usually busy with their own stuff. It is better to feel good about yourself without needing others to tell you. A great read and good reminder.

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Odinakachi Nwonu's avatar

You’ve put it so aptly well.

Thanks for sharing your thoughts on the matter, Tinashe.

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Ozioma's avatar

This cut deep. Validation is like steroids. You really do not want to get addicted. I have learned from this episode to do me. The world would come around when it is a success. It sad that only success attracts right? But ain’t we attracted to success too? We must learn to be motivated from within. That would keep us going through thick and thin. Thank you so much for this episode Odinakachi. It meant a lot to me!

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Odinakachi Nwonu's avatar

I’m deeply moved by your response and I’m so happy the post resonated with you.

You’re most welcome, Ozioma.

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