I’ve realized that waiting for the perfect time is futile because it doesn’t exist. On my 25th birthday, I prayed fervently to God for the life I have now, believing it would bring me complete joy. Yet, years later, I’m still searching for joy, often finding myself in the embrace of sadness. It’s no longer just a roommate; it feels like a romantic partner.
But I’m learning to breathe, though it’s not easy. Your writing resonates deeply with me. I need to stop postponing my joy and redefine what truly brings me Joy, as I think that’s the real issue.
Thank you for always filling my cup with your words.
Thinking of joy as something we have to earn does us no good. It should be a regular part of our lives and not something we only indulge in on occasion. You make a wonderful case for that.
Grief went from being an august visitor to being a regular one and finally, it moved in and we became roommates. (This hit hard)
I’m sure you’ve heard the expression, “fight for joy”. Turns out the reason you have to fight for it is because the alternative is way cheaper. (And this says it all).
I jump on your postcards the moment it drops. This is simply amazing!
Like all good things, there can never be a lack of joy!
Wonderful read! I loved it.
I’ve realized that waiting for the perfect time is futile because it doesn’t exist. On my 25th birthday, I prayed fervently to God for the life I have now, believing it would bring me complete joy. Yet, years later, I’m still searching for joy, often finding myself in the embrace of sadness. It’s no longer just a roommate; it feels like a romantic partner.
But I’m learning to breathe, though it’s not easy. Your writing resonates deeply with me. I need to stop postponing my joy and redefine what truly brings me Joy, as I think that’s the real issue.
Thank you for always filling my cup with your words.
This made me teary because I really understand how sadness can feel like a romantic partner. 😭
Just one breath after another…
You’re most welcome and thanks for always reading. 🥰
Your ideas about joy are spot-on.
Finding joy in small things can really change our lives. I am intentionally practicing this at the moment.
A great reminder, Odinakachi.
I’m so happy this piece resonated with you.
Thank you so much for your constant support.
Thinking of joy as something we have to earn does us no good. It should be a regular part of our lives and not something we only indulge in on occasion. You make a wonderful case for that.
Great stuff, Odinakachi!
Thank you so much for your unwavering support, Harun. I deeply appreciate it.
Grief went from being an august visitor to being a regular one and finally, it moved in and we became roommates. (This hit hard)
I’m sure you’ve heard the expression, “fight for joy”. Turns out the reason you have to fight for it is because the alternative is way cheaper. (And this says it all).
I jump on your postcards the moment it drops. This is simply amazing!
Oh my! I’m perpetually grateful for your support and I’m so happy this piece resonated with you. 🥰